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Understand. Trust. Love.

You already carry the key, this work helps you learn how to use it.

Sometimes you just need room to breathe. Here, you have that.

A calm place to sort through things at your own pace.

Hi, I'm Ilana

MFT
Registered Psychotherapist (Ontario) Relationship and Dating Coach

I work with individuals and couples who want to understand themselves more deeply and create healthier, more grounded relationships.

I love growing alongside my clients. Together, we practice slowing down, listening inward, and making space for the connection and meaning you want in your life. 

Live fully, love deeply.

Human connection shapes so much of our wellbeing.
Even when relationships feel complicated, they can still be places where we learn and grow.

Here, you don’t need to hold everything together or be a certain way.
You can show up as you are – unsure, curious, hopeful, or still figuring things out.

We move at your pace, with steadiness and care, as you build trust in yourself and create relationships that feel more supportive and nourishing.

What We Can Work on Together

Showing up as the real you

Feeling more balanced and steady day to day

Living with more gratitude, joy and openness

Feeling more confident and able to trust yourself

Letting go of shame’s old stories 

Healing what still hurts today

Creating calm in overwhelming moments

Seeing your own worth with kinder eyes 

Understand what’s fueling your reactions and behaviors 

Welcoming in all your parts with curiosity and compassion 

Expanding my capacity to cope with discomfort and uncertainty 

Taking small, thoughtful steps that feel right for you

Feeling safer to be seen and known 

Navigating relationships without losing yourself 

Communicating clearly, even when it’s hard 

This is a space to meet every part of you with respect. We slow things down, notice what’s happening inside, and explore it gently, without judgment or pressure. The process isn’t linear. But over time, many people find more clarity, steadiness, and a stronger sense of their own voice.

When life hits a hard moment, it can feel hopeless. But this moment is one snapshot in a much larger flow - not the whole story.
"The present moment is a snapshot in a flowing river."

How I can help

Dating and Relationship Coaching

Couples Counseling

Individual Counseling​

"The curious paradox is
that when I accept myself
just as I am,
Then I can change."

- Carl Rogers

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