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Understand. Trust. Love.

You already carry the key, this work helps you learn how to use it.

Understand. Trust. Love.

You already carry the key, this work helps you learn how to use it.

Hi, I'm Ilana

MFT
Registered Psychotherapist (Ontario) Relationship and Dating Coach

I work with individuals and couples who want to understand themselves more deeply and create healthier, more grounded relationships.

I love growing alongside my clients. Together, we practice slowing down, listening inward, and making space for the connection and meaning you want in your life. 

Live fully, love deeply.

Human connection shapes so much of our lives, even when it’s difficult, it builds resilience. 
Feeling seen, heard, and understood is essential to our sense of meaning and wellbeing.

In this space, you can bring your full self.
We move at your pace , with care, curiosity, and respect , as you learn to trust yourself more deeply and create relationships that feel steady and nourishing.

You are worth the investment!

What We Can Work on Together

Showing up as the real you

Feeling more balanced and steady day to day

Living with more gratitude, joy and openness

Feeling more confident and able to trust yourself

Letting go of shame’s old stories 

Healing what still hurts today

Creating calm in overwhelming moments

Seeing your own worth with kinder eyes 

Understand what’s fueling your reactions and behaviors 

Welcoming in all your parts with curiosity and compassion 

Expanding my capacity to cope with discomfort and uncertainty 

Taking small, thoughtful steps that feel right for you

Feeling safer to be seen and known 

Navigating relationships without losing yourself 

Communicating clearly, even when it’s hard 

This is a space where you can bring your full self, the parts of you that feel scared or unsure, as well as the parts that feel hopeful, curious, messy, and strong. Together, we slow things down and gently explore what’s happening inside. We take each part of you seriously, with care and curiosity. There’s no judgment here, just room to notice what matters and stay with it. The process isn’t linear, and that’s okay. Over time, many people find things feel a bit steadier. You can begin to hear your own voice more clearly and carry that sense of support with you, even outside our sessions.

When we hit a hard moment in the journey of life, we can feel helpless and hopeless.

When we can see this moment as a snapshot in a flowing river, a part of a process, we can access more hope and empowerment.

Today is not the end of our story!
"The present moment is a snapshot in a flowing river."

How I can help

Dating and Relationship Coaching

Couples Counseling

Individual Counseling​

"The curious paradox is
that when I accept myself
just as I am,
Then I can change."

- Carl Rogers

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