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Understand. Trust. Love.

You already carry the key, this work helps you learn how to use it.

Understand. Trust. Love.

You already carry the key, this work helps you learn how to use it.

Welcome!

I'm Ilana

MFT
Registered Psychotherapist (ON)
Relationship and Dating Coach

I work with individuals and couples who want to understand themselves and their relationships more clearly, especially when things feel confusing, painful, or stuck.

My approach is thoughtful, relational, and grounded. I care deeply about creating a space where we move at a pace that feels right, without rushing or pressure to have everything figured out. Together, we make room for curiosity, honesty, and more ease in how you relate to yourself and others.

There’s room here to be honest, human, and imperfect.

Live fully, love deeply.

Human connection shapes so much of our lives, even when it’s difficult, it builds resilience. 
Feeling seen, heard, and understood is essential to our sense of meaning and wellbeing.

In this space, you can bring your full self.
We move at your pace , with care, curiosity, and respect , as you learn to trust yourself more deeply and create relationships that feel steady and nourishing.

You are worth the investment!

What We Can Work on Together

Showing up as the real you

Feeling more balanced and steady day to day

Living with more gratitude, joy and openness

Feeling more confident and able to trust yourself

Letting go of shame’s old stories 

Healing what still hurts today

Creating calm in overwhelming moments

Seeing your own worth with kinder eyes 

Understand what’s fueling your reactions and behaviors 

Welcoming in all your parts with curiosity and compassion 

Expanding my capacity to cope with discomfort and uncertainty 

Taking small, thoughtful steps that feel right for you

Feeling safer to be seen and known 

Navigating relationships without losing yourself 

Communicating clearly, even when it’s hard 

When we hit a hard moment in the journey of life, we can feel helpless and hopeless.

When we can see this moment as a snapshot in a flowing river, a part of a process, we can access more hope and empowerment.

Today is not the end of our story!
"The present moment is a snapshot in a flowing river."

How I can help

Dating and Relationship Coaching

Couples Counseling

Individual Counseling​

"The curious paradox is
that when I accept myself
just as I am,
Then I can change."

- Carl Rogers

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