Love is meant to be strong enough to last. We begin married life together with dreams, hopes, and promises.  But a promise to each other doesn’t come with a guarantee.  On the outside, a couple may appear happy and connected, but sometimes on the inside, they feel disconnected and alone.

Although we try to focus on the good parts and brush occasional fall-outs under the rug, often disagreements and misunderstandings cause couples to feel guarded and disconnected. We get hurt by the very person who we married to “love us most of all”.  

The behavior that we exhibit when we are hurt is wired and shaped by our early life experiences.  Once stuck in this protective pattern, people can’t easily change their moves and can get stuck in the pattern. Both partners often end up feeling hurt, scared and confused and don’t have the map to repair the relationship.  

My goal is to help you slow down and process what’s going on in each of your inner worlds.  It is possible to rewire your old patterns so you can create new paths and new possibilities. My hope is to help reignite those original dreams and hopes in a relationship that is even more mature, deep and safe than how you started out.